摘要 伴随现代化转型,农村老年人黄昏恋呈兴起态势,立足北方农村小样本的质性研究,通过对黄昏恋兴起特征及其规范“字据”的分析,发现黄昏恋金钱交换、权责脱卸的实践规则,由此印证了农村老年人的黄昏恋不是个体主义发展带来的现代自由恋爱,也不是传统意义上的婚姻,而是功能性搭伴养老,它通过需求互补和需求互助两种搭伴形式,实现了男性老人生活照料、女性老人赚钱养老和精神慰藉的自养功能。而探析农村老年人黄昏恋的兴起逻辑,需从代际关系变迁视角予以分析,在城镇化与工业化进程中农民家庭代际关系逐渐失衡并走向代际剥削,具体表现为资源交换失衡、权力让渡失范和伦理失序,这导致家庭养老功能弱化:子代退养和老人自养并起,这构成黄昏恋兴起的内在逻辑。农村黄昏恋的兴起是家庭伦理危机的映射,农民家庭的神圣性趋于瓦解,亟须重塑。 With the modernization transformation,the rural old people’s twilight love is on the rise.based on the qualitative research of small samples in northern rural areas,through the analysis of the characteristics of the rise of twilight love and its normative“written evidence”,this paper finds out the practical rules of money exchange and power,responsibility shedding thus comfirming that twilight love of the rural elderly is not a modern free love brought about by the development of individualism,nor is it a traditional marriage,but a functional companion ship for the elderly.It realizes the self-supporting function of male elderly living care,female elderly earning for the aged and spiritual consolation through two forms of companionship:complementary needs and mutual assistance.In order to analyze the logic of the rise of the rural old man’s twilight love,it is necessary to analyze it from the perspective of generational relationship change.In the process of urbanization and industrialization,the intergenerational relationship of peasant families has gradually become unbalanced and tends to intergenerational exploitation,which is manifested in the imbalance of resource exchange,loss of power transfer and ethical disorder.The imbalance of intergenerational relations leads to the weakening of the family’s function of supporting the elderly:the withdrawing of offspring and the selfsupport of the elderly have become the internal logic of the rise of twilight love.The rise of twilight love in the countryside is a reflection of the family ethical crisis,and the sanctity of the peasant family tends to collapse and urgently needs to be reshaped.
机构地区 中国社会科学院大学社会学院
出处 《人口与经济》 北大核心 2021年第3期69-79,共11页 Population & Economics
关键词 黄昏恋 搭伴养老 代际关系失衡 伦理危机 twilight love partner for the elderly imbalance of intergenerational relationship ethical crisis
分类号 C913.6 [经济管理]
